from a comment: …it’s natural. Most men are attracted to submissive women and most women are attracted to dominant men. It’s not a woman’s role to challenge, attack, bitch and nag her husband. She’s supposed to respect him, support him, help him, care for him. He’s supposed to take care of her and the family and provide for us. On every level – emotional, sexual, structural – bad things happen when men and women are trying to steer the ship at the same time. …women need to learn to start respecting men again.